What I remember:

Steven asking me to get engaged to him 'cos it'll be a laugh' and then realising he was serious.

Steven telling me when we together re. Kylie Minogue 'I wouldn't crawl over her to get to you'.

Steven supporting me through my MA and my mother's illnesses.

Steven saying 'this is what i think of this' in the middle of watching I, Claudius and then farting.

Mr Brown, Mr White, the lesbian mice, the gerbils, the hamsters, the baby mice ... the baby mice apocalypse ...

JohnK spanking Steven on stage at Dynamite Boogaloo in front of my brother and sister-in-law.

Living with Steven, fighting with Steven, laughing with Steven, loving Steven.

Being woken up at 5am by the windows below our bedsit exploding. Steven grabbed his fags. before anything else.

Broad Street, Elm Grove, Roundhill Crescent, Hollingbury.

Steven inflicting the name 'Jepthah' on one of our cats (pictured).

Steven and Annalise having an enormous argument about Marks & Spencers' jeans - Steven was a Levi's 501s man through and through.

Steven's writings, paintings and drawings.

Steven introducing me to Charles Bukowski, Iceberg Slim, Eduardo Paolozzi, The Dead Kennedys and Black Flag.

Steven and I drinking illicitly-acquired fine wine on Brighton beach.

Arguments about The Wedding Present. And Michael Moorcock. - AFT